F.R.I.E.N.D.S

FRIENDS- The word itself is so much refreshing. Friends are an integral part of our lives. When this term arrives, there are slideshows of faces and those amazing memories that starts to play in our mind. There are many kinds of friends that we make in different timings of our life. Some in our childhood, some in our school, some in our college and some strangers that randomly become our friends and these all are equally important for us as they all play a specific role. From childhood to old age we all require friends.

We are our own friend first and then someone else's. The way you are there for others be there for yourselves when you need to be you. The way you understand what is going wrong with your friend, start doing that when you feel the same for yourself so. Our siblings are one of the best friends we could ever get. Not everyone we meet is our friend and not everyone we know for years is our friend. The types of friends we have is the reflection of our choices and how we see ourselves as. As it is very well said that we are known for the friends and people we hang out with. And it is somewhere true because our friends play an important part in our lives and have a huge influence. It is either they transform us or shatter our lives.

There are three kinds of people in friendship, one who prefers quality over quantity one who prefers quantity over quality and one who believes to have both quality as well as quantity. Friends are the one who are happy in your happiness sad in your sadness who motivates us drag us to the right path as well as our partners in crime. 

One should always be happy seeing their friend’s success rather than being jealous. And be understanding and supportive in their failures. Our friends are our comfort zone a shoulder to lean on our Santa clause who never fails to surprise us. Friendship is growing old together. Friendship is not just about how long you have known each other but how well you have enjoyed being together. Friendship is sharing your things to your secrets to be kept safe.  Some friends come in our lives as an angel who completely make us a new person. Friends are the ones who may not be a good advisor but an excellent listening ear. They may not be the best healers but are an excellent clown who make us laugh constantly. They may not have solutions to our problem but they make us realize to deal with the problem with different perspective. Why do we always go well with the person whom we call our friends and we become friends with the person with whom we share most of our qualities with, is because somewhere we are looking for ourselves in them. We all want someone like minded as us to be our friends. Friends do not need a constant communication but something that never changes even without a constant communication. We do not need to gift them to be their friends but care for them and be really there when they need us. The foundation of friendship is share, give and take but do not expect. The best kinds of friendships are when even our parents can trust our friends. We all remember our parents saying to our friends that " it’s because you are accompanying is why he/she gets the permission to do something or go somewhere". Some people just forget that relationships and friendships are two different yet important things that exist in our lives but still knowing this they would choose just one of them and which is why they either gain one or lose both.

Friendship does not require age, colour, financial status, religion or profession to have a bond with but unconditional love. Just as human beings’ animals are also our friends, they just need love and they will be loyal to you for the rest of your life. We have something to learn from each of our friends because everyone has a different character and way of living life and this is how a gang of friends is formed.

Those drunken memories, college bunks those hilarious fights everything in friendship is just so amazing. Keep making friends worth a bond of friendship. Lots of love to all the friends out there. Wishing you all a very Happy Friendship Day.

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Have a great day ahead.